there is a reason why the living room is call 客厅， and the room can be called 闺房。I'm a cancer, i'm an introvert. I'm fine with people coming into the house, but not to my space when I didnt ask for it. I feel that my space is being intruded and I dont feel comfortable at all. I feel vulnerable. blehs. don't like this feeling. it's a feeling that occur naturally and I can't help but to feel uncomfortable.