Oh no.
I'm already got enough things to make me sad.
The least I need now is to have another thing to make me feel sadder.

When will she ever wake up?
can someone tell me? can someone help me to talk some sense to her?
It's ok for you to find out...to feel sad...to cry..but it's not ok for you to then live in denial.
How can one just live in denial for 20 years. 20 freaking years.
What bothers me is not about what happened. what bothers me is how u can still "live in denial" AFTER what happen. And then few months later, when same thing happen again, the whole cycle repeats.
don't you want to break free from this cycle at all?

问题：是自己自找的。
I shall not find myself more problems to feel sad about.